💋 Before You Begin

This quiz is designed to help you uncover which Feminine Love Archetype you’re currently embodying, the unique way your heart, nervous system, and attachment patterns express love.

You might resonate with more than one answer, and that’s totally normal.

✨ Just choose the response that feels most like you right now, not the “healed” version you’re becoming, and not who you think you should be.

Trust your first instinct.

Your body already knows the truth, we’re just translating it into language.

1. When someone you love starts to pull away, what’s your first instinct? *

A) I try harder to make them feel loved and supported.

B) I stay calm, tell myself they’re just triggered, and give them space but secretly, I’m anxious.

C) I act like I don’t care and distract myself, but deep down I’m scared they’ll leave.

D) I tell myself “the universe is redirecting me” and disconnect emotionally to avoid the sting.

2. When you think about love, what’s the feeling that comes up first? *

A) Longing. I crave that “all-in” connection.

B) Hope. I believe love can heal anything if both people do the work.

C) Intensity. I want fireworks, passion, and someone who can handle my energy.

D) Detachment. I tell myself I’m content alone, but secretly I’m afraid to feel that deeply again.

3. When you feel anxious or disconnected after an argument, what do you usually do *

A) I overthink every detail, replay the conversation, and try to fix it immediately.

B) I feel guilty, take all the blame, and send a long text apologizing even if I didn’t do anything wrong.

C) I pretend I don’t care, distract myself, or flirt with someone new to get my power back.

D) I detach and tell myself “everything happens for a reason,” but deep down I’m avoiding the pain.

4. Which statement sounds most like your love life lately? *

A) I give everything and still feel like it’s never enough.

B) I attract partners who need healing and think I can be the one to fix them.

C) I say I want commitment, but part of me fears losing my freedom.

D) I’m focused on alignment and divine timing but it feels like love keeps skipping me.

5. When someone compliments you or offers love, what’s your reaction? *

A) I deflect or downplay it, it’s hard to receive.

B) I smile but question if they really mean it.

C) I joke or flirt it off, vulnerability makes me squirm.

D) I accept it gracefully, but it doesn’t land, it feels more like information than emotion.

6. Growing up, what did love feel like in your home? *

A) Conditional: I had to earn affection through being “good” or helpful.

B) Heavy: I felt responsible for keeping everyone calm and happy.

C) Unpredictable: sometimes warm, sometimes chaotic, depending on the mood.

D) Distant: people cared, but emotions weren’t really expressed or safe.

7. How did your caregivers usually respond when you were upset as a child? *

A) They told me to stop crying or made me feel guilty for being emotional.

B) They needed me to comfort them, I became the peacemaker or helper.

C) They minimized it or distracted me- big feelings weren’t really discussed.

D) They intellectualized it or talked about logic, religion, or “life lessons” instead of feelings.

8. When you like someone, how do you usually show it? *

A) I go all in. I want to make them feel loved, seen, and chosen.

B) I listen deeply, anticipate their needs, and try to make their life easier.

C) I flirt, tease, and keep a bit of mystery. I like to feel desired.

D) I keep it subtle. I wait for energetic confirmation before opening my heart.

9. What’s your biggest fear in relationships? *

A) That I’ll love them more than they love me.

B) That I’ll give everything and still end up alone.

C) That I’ll lose myself or feel trapped.

D) That no one will ever truly understand me on a soul level.

10. When you imagine your “dream relationship,” what feels most important? *

A) Feeling safe, chosen, and secure.

B) Deep emotional intimacy and mutual healing.

C) Passion, freedom, and adventure with emotional depth.

D) Spiritual connection, energetic alignment, and shared growth.

11. How do you respond when your partner doesn’t meet your emotional needs? *

A) I try harder to meet theirs, hoping they’ll reciprocate.

B) I over-explain, analyze, and try to talk it out until they understand.

C) I get frustrated, pull away, or test them to see if they’ll chase.

D) I retreat into solitude or self-work, “if they can’t meet me there, it’s not meant to be.”

12. When you’re alone at night, what thought hits the deepest? *

A) “Why am I always the one who cares more?”

B) “Maybe I’m too much to be loved the way I love others.”

C) “Maybe I’m better off alone than disappointed again.”

D) “Maybe love just isn’t part of my soul contract this lifetime.”

✨ Congratulations, beautiful soul — you did it.

Taking this quiz is a big deal, and I want to honor that. I see you and I’ve been where you are. Real change in love is absolutely possible for you.

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